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After 90, the hot mom gave birth to a second child, said he is like Gao Fushuai (Figure) after 90 hot mother Sukey said she always get along with the flow and follow the nature, but always know what you want. When the other female students busy self-study, love, friends, she was busy working part-time, a person to travel around the world; the University for 4 years, she does not love, but in the first job after graduation in Mr. Right, rushed to get married and have a baby, now she is the mother of two children…… Her name is Sukey, after 90, when mom has been three years. She practiced a lot of new generation of women’s values of life, regardless of the traditional view of the older generation, that is not "reliable", she is self fulfilling, and happy. "Everything is the best arrangement when she comes into herself," she thought. Petite Female man watching the world tour so far, Sukey still remember that afternoon: see Uncle moron the Internet inadvertently, a reliable male wandering of australia. For more than three months, he volunteered, worked as a couch potato and rode a bicycle…… Moron uncle very real experience, let Sukey blood and tears, crying for one afternoon. From then on, she made up her mind to go on a trip. From sophomore, Sukey started traveling alone. Family income is not good, the mother’s income barely support tuition fees, living expenses rely on Sukey part-time work to solve their own. That’s all right. She was a model and a flyer…… A year to do a variety of part-time to save their own living expenses, as well as travel costs – Sukey has gone to Philippines, India, Malaysia, Nepal, Turkey and other ten countries. Especially in Philippines, she has gone to 5 times, the country played a bottom, behind the door. It is full of beauty, but Sukey is a poor backpacker, can only try to form a tough gray female man: do break off the sofa, bus, train floor to sleep…… Compared with the type a Sukey stamp journey, tend to be more authentic local life. 2008 (Xian Guang), and the local people crowded bus, go to the market are all her love to travel. Among them, there are economic factors, however, even can easily stay in five star hotels today, Sukey still deeply miss those people make travel time. From the beginning of the first trip, Sukey insisted on a person – "never thought to go with others, always feel that his itinerary is very casual, do not want to drag others."." She rarely makes travel plans, and she flies to the place, and feels like she’s walking, and when time comes, she goes home. The first time to go to Philippines, Sukey found a sofa guest, the other is to open a restaurant, Sukey occasionally helped to do a few Chinese dishes, "do so bad, but also sold out."……" A man went to India after-graduation trip, encounter or handsome or simple or sly or rich off the sofa, tricycle and local people eat the whole earth, all this sounds unbelievable suffering experience in others, but Sukey talked about, shining eyes, later also own a book — 4

90后辣妈生完二胎 称自己就是喜欢高富帅(图) 90后辣妈Sukey   说   她总随遇而安又随性而至,却永远知道自己要的是什么。   当别的女大学生忙着自习、恋爱、交友,她忙着兼职打工,一个人周游列国;大学4年,她不谈恋爱,却在毕业后的第一份工作中遇上真命天子,火速结婚、生娃,如今她已是两个孩子的妈妈……   她叫Sukey,90后,当妈已三年。   她践行着很多新一代女性的人生价值理念,不管在老一辈传统观点中,那算不算“靠谱”,她都自己成全自己,并幸福着。   “活出自我时,一切都是最好的安排”,她觉得。   娇小女汉子穷游看世界   至今,Sukey仍深深记得那个下午:在网上无意中看到废柴大叔,一个不靠谱大男生的澳大利亚流浪记。那三个多月里,他做义工,做沙发客,骑自行车跑步……废柴大叔无比真实的经历,让Sukey热血沸腾又泪流满面,哭了一个下午。从此,她下定决心:去旅行。   从大二起,Sukey开始一个人旅行。家境不算好,妈妈的收入勉强支撑学费,生活费要靠Sukey自己打工兼职来解决。没问题!她做模特、派传单……一年 做各种兼职给自己攒足生活费,还有旅费――Sukey先后去了菲律宾、印度、马来西亚、尼泊尔、土耳其等十几个国家。尤其是菲律宾,她先后去了5次,把这 个国家玩了个底朝天,门儿清。   明明是眉清目秀的美女,但Sukey是穷游的背包客,只能尽力彪悍成一枚灰头土脸的女汉子:做沙发客、挤破公交、睡火车地板……   相比走马观花的集邮式旅程,Sukey更倾向于原汁原味的当地生活。扫街(闲逛)、与当地人挤公交、逛市场等都是她喜欢的旅行方式。其中,当然也有经济的因素,不过,即便到了能轻松入住五星级酒店的今天,Sukey仍深深地怀念那些餐风露宿随遇而安的穷游时光。   从第一次旅行开始,Sukey便坚持一个人――“从没想过和别人一起去,总觉得自己的行程很随意,不想拖累别人。”   她很少做旅行计划,都是飞到当地,再凭感觉走,时间到了,就回家。第一次去菲律宾,Sukey就找了个沙发客,对方是开餐馆的,Sukey偶尔还帮忙做了 几个中国菜,“做得那么难吃,还被端出去卖掉了……”一个人前往印度毕业旅行,遇到或帅气或朴实或狡黠或富贵的沙发客主,和当地人挤着全程吃土的三轮摩 托,这一切在旁人听来不可思议的苦难经历,Sukey却津津乐道,两眼放光,后来还自己出了本书――《我从印度活着回来了》。   尽管一路出行遭遇各种脏乱差,当沙发客遇见“拉皮条”的王子、一杯酸奶差点儿病死异乡、遇见没完没了的“求婚”……对于随遇而安的Sukey来说,这些或奇葩或惊心动魄的经历都不足以把她吓退,这些在旁人看来苦不堪言的遭遇,在她看来反而还觉得有趣。   遇见他,嫁!为什么想那么多?   从印度回来后,Sukey开始找工作。原本的计划是,25岁前先干个一两年,攒够十万就走,去拿Working Holiday Visa(打工旅行签证),然后去环游世界……然而,这一切戛然而止――刚上班不久,她便遇到了真命天子,一个货真价实的“高富帅”。一发不可收拾,闪 婚。“为什么要想那么多?难得碰到这么喜欢的人,而且他也喜欢旅游,说要陪我去环游世界。”   不少朋友得知Sukey结婚的消息都很意外,Sukey漂亮、爱玩、年轻,怎么也不像会早早走入婚姻生活的人。   Sukey倒是很淡定。她一直明确自己想要什么。大学四年里,她的追求者加起来一个连。但她始终没谈恋爱,因为“没遇上对的,就宁缺毋滥”。   她喜欢什么样的男生呢?“就是高富帅!很俗气吧?可我明明就是喜欢啊,为什么要矫情和造假嘛。”如果别人批判她的观点,她也觉得无所谓。“每个人都有制定自己幸福标准的权利。”   婚后,她跟老公唯一的“吵点”,就是关于旅游方式。“我先生热爱旅游,却不是我所喜欢的那种穷游,他什么都要最好的:头等舱,五星级酒店、米其林餐厅…… 他觉得好不容易出去一趟,就是享受,为什么要亏待自己?20多个小时的飞机旅程,能在头等舱睡,干嘛偏要猫在经济舱里找难受?为什么不让自己舒服点?这让 我很苦恼。穷游的乐趣,在于更能格物致知,有点累,有点疲惫,有点挫折,才像旅途该有的样子。”   不过,Sukey好久也没机会跟老公“吵”了,因为这个大小孩已做了妈妈,而且,还是两个孩子的妈妈。   对未来,她最期待的,就是“拎着两只小东西,还有他们的爸爸,一家四口去远方,去旅游”。末了她补充:“必须是穷游!”   理由   高颜值 高智商 高情商 穷游世界 闪婚生娃   对话   (新快报简称“新”)   新:“春节”在你心中是什么?   Sukey:意味着大吃大喝,长胖。   新:还记得家乡的年味么?   Sukey:你可难倒我了,我在深圳,春节就是一座空城,年味,就是逛逛花街吧。   新:春节怎么过?   Sukey:往年都会出去度假,但今年刚生完二胎,宝宝还在吃奶,应该就是留在家里吧。   新:有什么新年愿望?   Sukey:希望不要再生小孩了……(笑)   最好的选择   Sukey刚结婚的时候,周遭的人几乎都隐隐表达过――“可惜”。然而没过两年,已有俩娃的她,幸福美满,俨然又成了不少人口中的人生赢家……很多人会说,在最好的年纪未必能作出最好的选择,但Sukey做到了。她相信,“无论什么年纪都是最好的年纪。”   如今,尽管孩子还在哺乳期,尽管老公收入不菲,她完全可以只负责“在家貌美如花”,但Sukey已开始物色工作了,这是她对自己的要求。   随遇而安却不放松自己,遵从内心最真实的声音,就如同当年在印度,她有足够的钱让自己更舒服一些,却宁愿挤车、睡地板去体验最真实的异乡生活;就如同如 今,她完全可以享受奢侈写意的度假,却依然期待走街串巷餐风露宿的穷游旅程……对她来说,一切都是最好的安排,所有选择都是最好的选择。 责任编辑:茅敏敏 SN184相关的主题文章: